The Nabi Effect & More

Happy Birthday to a beautiful 6 yr old boy, Jeremiah. As he gets older, I will continue to teach him how to love and care for others while also protecting his own heart and peace. He is a very emotional creature and I allow him to cry and show his emotions while teaching him the correct way to express them. I believe this is essential in the world today, that our sons and men are emotionally intelligent and aware.

As this title says, Life Choices. I look back sometimes and realize that there are some choices and decisions that I would have done differently if I have accepted myself for who I was. I went through a long phase of wanting to fit in with others and be excepted which I am not saying is a bad thing everyone goes through it. I just wish I had come out of it earlier than I did. I struggle immensely with making people like me. Not understanding that I was giving all of these different people control of my life and that I was not in control nor was I happy. So over the last 3-4 years I have been working on myself and understanding that people may never like me but as long as I love and am happy with myself, eventually, I will attract people who do like and accept me for who I am.

Making these changes in how I see myself along with changing my self-care routine, I have learned more about myself. I talk to my children often about accepting themselves or no one will accept them because they are not happy with themselves.