The Nabi Effect & More

November 26th, 2021

My first Thanksgiving in South Korea. I had Chicken and Rice for dinner. The website is stressing me because I want it to be perfect but we all know that perfection does not exist. Perfection is an illusion. I had my two best friends look at the website and they stated it is good enough to publish. I made some changes to it and decided to type my journal entries to share the process I have taken to get this website up and running. I don't want to act perfect because I am not, I have figured out ways to do this that have proven over the years to be beneficial to all of the children and parents who's lives I come into contact with.

I run a language server with some friends where we are learning Korean. I am also slowly integrating Mandarin (Chinese) and Japanese. My eldest Son is wanting to learn Japanese so I am researching the most successful steps for him to successful also. My 12 yrs old wants to learn Korean but I am unsure what dedication she is willing to put into it. My Younger two are 5 and 2 yrs old. The 5 yrs old likes speaking Spanish and the 2 yr old likes learning random Korean words. When I get back home for 30 days I am going to play Korean learning videos for them and see how they pick up the language.

My Coaching class this week was a bit hard, we touched on a topic that required me to dig into some spots in my heart that I tend to ignore due to the fact that I don't quite understand my own emotions as well as I understand others. I  had to talk about the struggles I had in getting over the only relationship I ever had. And the on going battle I have with myself on why people feel they can treat me any less than I deserve. That is when I came across a saying that how people treat me is a reflection of them not a reflection of me. That is when I realized that I can treat people like gold and if they turn around and treat me poorly that is not a reflection of myself but a reflection of them.